When I married my wife we didn't do the aisle, we just sort of mingled and gathered in the backyard and we just sort of started the ceremony. People attending most wedding get the clue the wedding is to start when the music changes and the moms make their way to the front of the church, followed by the bridesmaids and the ring bearer and flower girl. Then there is a brief pause and the music changes again to hear comes the bride and here she comes--with dad down the aisle for everyone to adore.... especially the guy down at the end of the aisle waiting for her so they can begin their lives together as one. Pretty cool stuff! SayerMotter photographs by Richard Sayer.