I don't know how many of the common practices in weddings got started, but certain things I know I need to ask as a photographer just so I can be ready for them when they happen. Being in position is 95% of the battle. Many time the candle lighting is a tough picture to get. I have been to several of these where the photographer re-staged this because he or she couldn't get into position to get a good shot. I asked how they planned to do it knowing their was room for me to get to the side if needed, but Dee and Greg were smart--they thought it through and had it so they could face their guests(and me awaiting in the aisle) as they lit their candle. So I was ready because they made it easy for me and then the first kiss moments later I was able to stay put for. SayerMotter Photography by Richard Sayer.