Sometimes it is forgotten, but the wedding day, though it is 91 % about the bride and 8% about the groom, there is at least 1% about the moms. The moms see their hard work and love come to a pinnacle of success on this day. I remember taking the picture of the moms standing side by side with the bride and groom in the middle thinking this picture shows they were there, but not the emotion of what they went through to get to this point. I always want some sort of 'moment' and in group photos that moment is hard to find. I started with a joke asking them to push their child away as if to say--ok you can have him or her...but that didn't seem to cut it--although they were fun to do and everyone laughed. It was the kiss on the cheek picture that seemed to sum it up. These are sort of controlled serendipity moments--I send out an idea and see how they do it and click my shutter. SayerMotter Photograph by Richard Sayer.