A lot of detail goes into throwing a shindig... perhaps thats why there are people who make a living doing that...someone to handle all the headaches that come with planning. I think Dee and Greg did nearly all of their own planning with the great help from moms and dads and and and.... I always envisioned a best man just sorta sticking a ring in his pocket and hopefully not dropping while digging out some change for a breakfast burrito at the local gas station while on the way to the church, but there is this whole thing with a pillow decorated and the ring nicely tied together(done by Greg actually about an hour or so before the ceremony.) Then its up to a young member of the family to get it to the alter. Then a little girl will then usually sort of toss rose petals or something along the aisle that the bride will soon walk down. In Dee' and Greg's case the 'flower girl' passed out Peacock feathers to signify the couples theme. Peacock feathers symbolize good luck and well-being. SayerMotter Photographs by Richard Sayer.